These are some orange blossoms that are blooming in my yard. They smell delicious.
(orange blossoms are on my top 5 yummiest smells list)
Every time I hear the word blossom, I think about my brother.
This is my brother Brock. He's not on my top 5 yummiest smells list, but he is at the top of my list for favorite brothers.
(Brock in 1994)
Brock is 2 years, 1 month and 7 days older than me.
He took his job as an older brother very seriously. He never missed a day to tease me. He never passed up a moment to embarrass me. You know....big brother stuff.
One time he spent an entire Saturday pleading for me to answer the question, "Why didn't you tell me Le Mans???"
I didn't know what Le Mans was and I had no idea I was supposed to remind him about it. I was sobbing by the end of the day and apologizing profusely for forgetting to remind him about something so important.
When he'd seen me suffer long enough, he informed me that he didn't know what Le Mans was either and added,
"But it was sure fun to watch you cry about it all day."
Another time when I was about 13, Brock was downstairs with all of his buddies.
I usually had crushes on several of his friends and spent a good amount of time in the bathroom fluffing my bangs when I knew they were coming.
After I'd fluffed them good and long, I strolled downstairs to pretend I needed something.
I walked in the kitchen where Brock and his buddies were eating. Before I had a chance to bat an eyelash, Brock stood up, walked passed me and announced, "Wow Stac, you're really blossoming."
I was mortified.
I ran upstairs and sobbed on my bed. I was so angry with him. I swore I'd never speak to him again.
But not speaking to him didn't last long. He's my brother. And I think in some ways I enjoyed the abuse. I knew it was his way of showing his love to his little sister.
I miss him. He's married with 4 little boys. He's finishing his last 2 years of residency and has lived all over the country for many years.
But I wish he lived down the street.
I wish my children could play with his children.
I wish I could have them over for Family Home Evening tonight.
I wish I could see him often enough to dish back some of his teasing.
But for now I'll have to settle for a phone call and a brief update about he and his family. I'll have to be ok with pictures of his new little baby sent by email.
But I'll also be looking forward to visiting him soon. I'll even welcome some good ol' fashioned teasing while I'm there.